We are some many people in the world and we have diverse personalities and approaches towards life and problems. Some laugh off their own problems and help you look at your issues with a touch of humor while some are cynical about everything in life, good or bad. This negative attitude, definitely has some reasons and before you could hate somebody, you must consider the following tips to help you deal with the negativity of the people, in an unaffected way.
Stay Calm and Analyze
When you are in a situation where someone is constantly badgering you with their negative attitude, wait a while and hold your angry horses. You must stay calm in that situation because negativity cannot be averted unless you are calm. When you are calm you are able to manage your own anger against their negativity and you can rationally analyze the situation that why you are being subjected to their negativity? Why is that person being so negative against you? Had he been hurt himself? Is he angry on life, people or you? So, you must stay calm and rational against the negativity of anyone.
The first reaction you show to any negativity is getting angry and this anger is just another form of negativity. You must maintain a control over your anger through the use of your mind, logic and your positivity. You need to stay in control of the situation by not showing any reaction what so ever to the negativity you have been subjected to. Maintaining control also mean to manage your own anger, and rationality and this will empower you against any sort of negative vibes. You can turn the situation around with a light humor or by being nice to them.
There can be many ways of dealing with the hard and negative situations but one of the best hacks is to smile back at the person who is showing negativity against you. When you will smile to them, not only will you be contended but you will also puzzle the negative person or situation at this attitude. It can also signify the kindness you have in your heart and will prove the negative person who might be dealing with a lot in his own life that ‘you can conquer’ by other means than showing negativity. Smile is such a small and kind gesture that radiates positivity and thus helps you against the contrary.
In the end an advice on being angry: Never go to sleep angry. Because you never know if you or the person you’re mad at will wake up the next morning. Always forgive because you never know if you’ll talk to them again. Things happen. Get over it. Always forgive. You may not forget but it’s better than knowing you’ll never get to say sorry or I love you again.