Since time has the energy and phenomena of change, it affects everything living or non-living. Just like that, time has its effects on the humans too. Recent analysts who have worked and analyzed through various variables and through differently controlled and uncontrolled experiments on the human behavior and attitude have come to this conclusion that human behavior is equally adaptable and changes with time into maturity and offers various positive vibes and reactions with age.
The basic characteristics that they tend to acquire with time and age are: – self-confidence, perseverance, stability of moods, conscientiousness, originality, and desire to learn. Time will bring you knowledge and experience that you cannot push away. For instance, if your hand has burned by a hot cup of tea, you wouldn’t hold the hot cup next time, you will be careful and you can’t even undo this information. Just like that, with time, you and your knowledge will inevitably change.
Counselor Karla Ivankovich, PhD and few of the recent studies of human behavior and personalities have concluded the following few positive changes that men, and women, will experience over their lifetime.
Build Up Strong Ideologies
With time, you tend to feel stronger in your beliefs and build up strong ideologies about everything. When you are young, you follow the crowd and if you don’t, you feel left out. You are easy to be influenced or intimidated about a choice you have to make in your life. Social media is your source of information good or bad and you cannot always be sure about the credibility of the things in life.
On the contrary, when you grow old, you learn a lot of things in life, your experiences are many, both good and bad, so you utilize that enlightening information in your defense and build your opinions, choices, ideologies and beliefs very strongly. You are hard to be convinced into believing something you have not seen or done yourself.
Your Appearance Starts to Count the Least
Ivankovich said: “Getting old, wrinkled and grey is in fate of everyone who survives their adulthood”.
Being young, you go through a lot of pressures. The foremost is the change you feel and observe in your own body. Few likes this change but many others don’t, so you work on your appearances whenever you have to go public. You take a lot of pressure about what to wear, how to look fashionably glamorous, how to hold your hair for the day and your appearance matters to you more than your habits, nature or believes.
But this phase starts to wear off when you start to own your looks. With age, you make peace with the tone of your hair and complexion of your skin. You begin to wear and carry your attire more easily and make statement with easy and simple clothes and more than often just wear your hairs down.
Guaranteed Stable and Solid Relationship
With age comes maturity which brings mature relationships and seriousness in your attitude that demands and offers solid commitments. Whatever your relationship with people, you take responsibility and you have no fears of losing people because by this age, you pretty well know who is true to you and who is just faking and you should better get rid of them. You end up being right all the time and this makes you humbler with people. Your age promises that you are not into flirting, showing off, betting, or own any such nonsensical habits and this guarantees stable and solid relationships with growing age.
Rational, Composed and Relaxed Career
The best advantage of getting old is that you get wiser with every year ticking off. This has its countless benefits and you can live your life in peace happily.
You do not make illogical demands or decisions which saves you from ever dwindling consequences of your irrational decisions. You tend to be wiser enough to mix your experiences, knowledge and rationality before taking a final decision or choosing your future move.
Similarly, you get more composed with age. While you are young, you become angry, emotional, skeptic or entirely sarcastic, but with age, you get rid of these showing off, of the expressions and you stay composed with your intangible feelings.
You use your logic and your stability to make a decision because of your composed personality.
Not only that, you relax with years passing by, about your future career. When you are young, you worry a lot about your future, success, earnings and life but with old age comes the stability in your personality which relaxes you about your career too and you either pass the responsibility to your kids or keep pursuing your career because of your own passion for it.
Aging has been transformed into a ghost that fears us all equally. With the researchers help we will learn to digest the fact that everyone gets old and this serves us all very well.