Usually in life, if you are a pragmatic person then you will have no problem observing and admitting that your friends, acquaintances, relatives and people around you in general are doing great in their life, and it’s only you who not only still try to figure it out what to do with your life but you are also doing clueless surfing of other people’s success stories instead of making one of your own.
Not only you are wasting your time and life but you’re becoming so negative, even get jealous of them and their pitch perfections. To escape this scenario we absorb ourselves in our daily routines, with same chores and errands and no spark, energy or excitement. But today, we have better ways and options that can also tweak our sad life and turn it into an ideal life and level.
This methodology has numerous advantages and it is very easy to adopt. Once you come on a regular track with it then you will get used to it and it will assure you, your success and the magical twist in your life. This methodology that is suggestible to everyone is named S.T.A.R.T and is devised after a long observation, reading and testing of behaviors in the general public.
The first thing that you have to do in your life is to simplify. Now stop making your life complex with endless yet useless and meaningless chores that you opted just for keeping yourself busy with one thing or the other. Also, to reduce the stress and tension, you must cut out those things from your life that build negative pressure and thoughts in you. For instance, listening to sad songs or reading about heartbreak stories or depressing failures. To simplify further, spend some more time on the things that make you happy and if you fail to figure out then just spend some time with your friends, family or your favorite people.
After simplifying, the second step is to define small targets for yourselves. These every day small targets will take you closer to your goals in everything. After this, formulate a well thought and contemplated plan for six months or a year. This way, you will plan for your baby steps towards your success in life. When you will achieve those little targets then your motivation level will soar higher and you will be pumped with only positive energy and excitement which will ultimately push you further towards your bigger targets and meanings of life.
It is very easy to sit and crib or day dream because in both ways, you will be blaming the circumstances, the world, situations but not yourself. Now, is the time to move and take things in your own hands if you want to change the current way of handling things and pressures. So in short, ACT! Start to take baby steps towards achieving your goals. It doesn’t have to be an act of big achievement but even a small step in the right direction will be a step forward on your path. You must stop thinking about other people, their reactions, their opinions and even their taunts or sarcasm. Just muster your courage and take a leap of faith and act and that too in time.
This could also be a reminder for those who are only day dreaming and not literally acting on their endless plans.
One way to fast forward your struggle and efforts to reach your goal is to check your progress and record your act and efforts. During reviewing, you have to make sure you stay strict and note down your exact performance. You have to judge the result of your efforts and planning and jot down the factual notes so you could compare your last review with the current one to conclude which steps helped you to improve and which wasn’t much effective. Through this review, we also realize whether our small targets that we made to fasten our speed in life are too dreamy like a fantasy or are realistic and helping us towards our ultimate goal of life.
The last strategy that you have to adopt after reviewing your progress is to translate your good and positive steps towards the other parts and plans of life too. For instance if you wanted to leave a bad habit or develop a good one and you have successfully done it through this strategy. Then you have to apply the same technique or take the same steps to excel in your career or life altogether.
These techniques and strategies will affect everyone but how sooner or later will depend only on their own conviction, dedication and effort. Once you have inspired your motivation then there is no hurdle for you and you will be successful in everything.